Dear Arab,

Pickup artists and spooning? Would this type of guy allow a girl to hang out in his bed with no expectations? Is it weird that they would be into spooning on the first date?

-snugglebunny

Dear Snugglebunny,

I’m into spooning. It’s really relaxing.

As for spooning on the first date… Yeah, why not? I generally do not bring a girl back to my place on the first date, so there usually isn’t any spooning on the first date. If you move too fast, you won’t get a second date. But if she comes back to my place on the second date and spends the night, I’ll expect some spooning. I have certain rules about how well I have to know a girl before we have sex. It’s usually difficult to learn enough about a girl on the first date, so spooning may come before sex. (Of course there are exceptions for every rule.)

-The Arab