June 5, 2008

Am I really being left behind?

by @ 6:04 pm. Filed under growing up

So, today the last of my single friends is buying a house… er I mean signing the papers on his new house.

I am the last of everyone within my group of friends to be progressing forward. I don’t own my own house, am not married, and do not have a job. What state does that exactly put me in.

I’m sitting here at school, and yes that’s community college still listening to the little barbies next to me talking about how they must have fall weddings… Am I so young that I’m no where even thinking about all that yet? I thought I was older than most people I go to school with. I guess age is just a state of mind.

What does this mean? Are my friends out growing me?

I’ve come to the conclusion that it doesn’t matter all that much, I’m pretty much happy at the place that I am in life, but it is something in the back of my head.

I guess it’s more motivation to get through with school faster. I guess the part of it all that’s scary is that I feel like I’m in this state of limbo right now. I know what I have to do, but I’m in the doing it stage and not the being done stage.

Maybe that’s the lesson, enjoying the stage of doing because there will always be a next stage to worry about later.

Any thoughts?


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