Dear Arab-

I just met this guy. We we’ve only gone on one date. I am mildly attracted to him. I have a feeling the sex would be good. But I don’t see him getting along with my friends or anything long term.

-longtermlover

Dear longtermlover
The bottom line is you should trust your instincts. If you don’t think you can see yourself with him for at least six months, they why go though the trouble of a second date? Unless of course you really just want some sex. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, and no one should think any less of you for it. Just be honest with yourself.

-The Arab