Yep, it’s formally time.  I’ve been discussing all year, and for a good chunk of last year how happy I am to have my friends.  Well folks, today’s Thanksgiving.  You know what that means.  Here comes the sap.

There are specific people I’d like to mention in this post, but I also realize that they may not like that.  So I hope you guys know who you are when reading this.  Probably the easiest way to do this will be with a list.  I started writing this thinking that I would make two lists, one for family and one for friends, but really, everyone on this list I also consider family.  Not all of them are blood related to me, but because I hold them all so close to my heart I feel safe saying that they are family.

• Jen (I can mention her because well, this is our blog) – There is so much of what you do for me that is just unspoken, I couldn’t be luckier than to have you for a friend.  There are many tight spots that you’ve helped me out of.  I can honestly say that I wouldn’t be as successful if you weren’t in my life.  Thank you.
• Meg – I know this past year was hard for you, finishing school and starting the new job.  OMG I’m so proud of you.  Even when you were going through major stress, you were still able to take the time to listen to me bitch. You and your husband really help me stay grounded. Thank you.
• The Jew – I know we’ve only become really good friends in the past year, but there’s so much of that friendship that has been missing in my life till now.  I’m glad I can be your confidant, and I’m glad you understand my crazy.  Thank you.
• Kleen – We met under strange circumstances, but damn I’m so glad I got you out of the divorce.  Thanks for talking me down when I needed it.  There’s nothing I’d rather do on a Monday than cook for you guys and watch heroes.
• Meg’s Husband – Thank you for being that sarcastic but true voice in my head.  You can get away saying more outrageous things to me than anyone I know.  But in all honesty, I am so glad you are support and otherwise for me.
• Micha – Could I find a cooler cousin anywhere? This was a good year for our relationship.  We got closer, and I’m really glad I finally got to know D better.  Thanks for helping me stay a little positive at the wedding, I was starting to get to be debbie downer.  Thanks for your advice on how to best deal with mothers.
• Nini – Ok I guess I have two equally cool cousins.  This year you and I entered a role reversal.  Now, I come to advice from you and not the other way around.  I’m so very happy for you and what you’ve become.  Thanks for your support and love.
• Owen’s Dad – You’ve definetly become more busy with other things in your life recently, but I’m so glad it’s finally for the right reasons.  Diesel and I give you immeasurable thanks for all you’ve done for us and me this year.
• Owen’s dad’s GF – You are one of the most genuine people I know.  Thank you for not making me feel silly for having a toothache.  Thank you for taking care of Owen’s dad.  Thank you for not taking any crap from anyone.
• The Arab – Dude, you bring me joy.  You are always upbeat, and can make me feel better in almost any situation.  Thank you.
• H & L – I know you don’t live here anymore, but I’m still really glad to have you guys in my life.  You are the people I want to become more like.  Not only by setting a good example, but also by listening and supporting me, I have gained infinite amounts of knowledge from you guys.
• Mario – Ha, thanks for the Cut Copy ticket.  I’m super glad we met at the show.  Your food and life advice is so valuable to me.

This list wouldn’t be complete with out me adding my immediate family, so I’ll do that. Sorry this is such a sap fest.

• Dad – Without your urging I wouldn’t have decided to to back to school. Thank you for that.  Thank you for calling me if I haven’t spoken to you guys in a few days to ask what to cook.  I know it’s really just cause you want to talk to me, but thanks for the facade.  So much about who you are has influenced me this far in my life.  Thanks for being an awesome parent, and a good friend when I needed it most.
• Mom – This year our realtionship grew also.  Yeah we were always ok underneath all the fighting and stuff, but something changed this year. We were able to talk more comfortably.  Maybe it was the politics, I don’t know.  Even though you guys live a thousand miles away, I’m always thinking about you.  Our relationship is very special to me, not only do you take care of me, but you also value the person who I’ve developed into.  Every step along the way you’ve been there for me.  Thank you.
• Auntie C – It seems like the past year has found us closer as well.  I’m glad we got to go to the reunion in CA this summer.  I’m really liking the fact that we’re now friends, I’m always excited to talk to you when you call. Thanks.
• Bill – This is the beginning of the beginning for us.  I know we were never very close in the past, but I’m glad that now, as we grow up a little, we have become friends.  I’m so excited and happy for you and A.  I always wanted a sister… Thanks.
• A – Thanks for taking care of my brother.  Thanks for listening to me when I come home and bitch.  I’m excited that you’ll be officially joining our family, because you’ve been a part of our family for a long time now.

Ok, that’s my list.  Sorry if it’s a little long-winded.  But today’s the day.  So, my advice today is: I know it’s a little cheesy, but call someone on your “list” and say thank you in person. Don’t just write it, or text it to them.  Todays the day for telling people how grateful you are for them.  I’m going to try to call or speak to everyone on this list today.  This year has brought about many positive changes for me.  I’m at a place now, (because of the support and love of my family and friends) where nothing can stop me.  Every day gets better and better.  Thanks everyone. You all are in my heart today.